Quote from “How to Recognize and Manage Caregiver Stress” by Alzheimer’s Association.
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10 COMMON SIGNS OF CAREGIVER STRESS1. Denial about the disease and its effect on the person who has been diagnosed.I know Mom is going to get better.2. Anger at the person with Alzheimer’s or frustration that he or she can’t do the things they used to be able to do. He knows how to get dressed — he’s just being stubborn.3. Social withdrawal from friends and activities that used to make you feel good.I don’t care about visiting with the neighbors anymore.4. Anxiety about the future and facing another day.What happens when he needs more care than I can provide?5. Depression that breaks your spirit and affects your ability to cope.I just don’t care anymore.6. Exhaustion that makes it nearly impossible to complete necessary daily tasks.I’m too tired for this.7. Sleeplessness caused by a never-ending list of concerns.What if she wanders out of the house or falls and hurts herself?8. Irritability that leads to moodiness and triggers negative responses and actions.Leave me alone!9. Lack of concentration that makes it difficult to perform familiar tasks.I was so busy, I forgot my appointment.10. Health problems that begin to take a mental and physical toll.I can’t remember the last time I felt good.***10 WAYS TO MANAGE STRESS AND BE A HEALTHIER CAREGIVERAre you so overwhelmed by taking care of someone else that you have neglected your own physical, mental and emotional well-being? If you find yourself not taking care of your own needs, you may be putting your health at risk.1. Find time for yourself.Consider taking advantage of respite care so you can spend time doing something youenjoy. Respite care provides caregivers with a temporary rest from caregiving, while the person with Alzheimer’s disease continues to receive care in a safe environment. Visit alz.org/care to learn more.2. Know what community resources are available.Contact the Alzheimer’s Association® or use our online Community Resource Finder(alz.org/CRF) to locate dementia care resources in your area. Adult day programs, in-home assistance, companions and meal delivery are just some of the services that canhelp you manage daily tasks.3. Become an educated caregiver.As the disease progresses, it may become necessary to adopt new caregiving skills. The Alzheimer’s Association offers programs to help you better understand and cope with common behavioral and personality changes that may occur. Visit theAlzheimer’s and Dementia Caregiver Center at alz.org/care to learn more and access care training resources, including free online workshops.4. Get help and find support.Our online Care Team Calendar (alz.org/carecalendar) helps you organize friends and family who want to help provide care and support. Our 24/7 Helpline (800.272.3900),ALZConnected® online social networking community (alzconnected.org) and local support groups (alz.org/findus) are all good sources for finding comfort and reassurance. If stress becomes overwhelming, seek professional help.5. Take care of yourself.Try to eat well, exercise and get plenty of rest. Making sure that you are healthy canhelp you be a better caregiver.6. Manage your level of stress.Stress can cause physical problems (blurred vision, stomach irritation, high blood pressure) and changes in behavior (irritability, lack of concentration, change in appetite). Note your symptoms and discuss with a doctor, as needed. Try to findrelaxation techniques that work for you.7. Accept changes as they occur.People with Alzheimer’s disease change over time and so do their needs. They may require care beyond what you can provide on your own. Becoming aware of community resources — from home care services to residential care — can make the transition easier. So will the support and assistance of those around you.8. Make legal and financial plans.Putting legal and financial plans in place after an Alzheimer’s diagnosis is importantso that the person with the disease can participate. Having future plans in place canprovide comfort to the entire family. Many documents, including advance directives,can be prepared without the help of an attorney. However, if you are unsure about how to complete legal documents or make financial plans, you may want to seekassistance from an attorney specializing in elder law, a financial advisor who is familiar with elder or long-term care planning, or both.9. Know you’re doing your best.Remember that the care you provide makes a difference and that you are doing the best you can. You may feel guilty because you can’t do more, but individual care needs change as Alzheimer’s progresses. You can’t promise how care will be delivered, but you can make sure that the person with the disease is well cared for and safe.10. Visit your doctor regularly.Take time to get regular checkups, and be aware of what your body is telling you.Pay attention to any exhaustion, stress, sleeplessness or changes in appetite or behavior. Ignoring symptoms can cause your physical and mental health to decline.CAREGIVER STRESS CHECKUPDo you experience any of these signs of stress?» Denial» Exhaustion» Anger» Sleeplessness» Health problems» Irritability» Social withdrawal» Lack of concentration» Depression» AnxietyCall 800.272.3900or visit alz.org for caregiver information and support.